Have you ever tried anal sex? If you are still a virgin in this practice, you will love this article because you will learn to enjoy your first time with the greatest possible pleasure.
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What is anal sex?
When we talk about anal sex we are referring to the sexual practice in which the penis – or a sex toy – is inserted through the anus into the rectum. This practice can be done in pairs or alone.
Anal sex has been considered a taboo activity since time immemorial, so much so that practically all religions have condemned it. Why?, you ask. This religious condemnation is due to the fact that it is one of the most efficient forms of birth control and that, on the other hand, it is a sexual activity with many risks in terms of hygiene.
Although this rejection continues even today, anal sex is one of the most common practices among homosexual couples and increasingly common among heterosexuals.
Why is anal sex pleasurable?
Anal sex in itself has a great potential for eroticism, since the anus is an area in which numerous nerve endings reside. These endings are very close to the sexual organs and the pelvic muscles responsible for producing orgasm.
Likewise, in men, penetration massages the prostate, which causes an extremely intense climax. It is even very different from the orgasm caused by masturbation or conventional sexual intercourse.
Is anal sex painful?
The sphincter is naturally closed, so if this muscle has not been properly worked to relax it, it is highly likely that anal sex will be painful.
It must also be remembered that the anus is not naturally lubricated, nor does its musculature have a natural elasticity that allows dilation. That is why it is so important that you can talk to your partner about what you like and what you don’t like at the time of penetration.
6 tips for you to enjoy it!
If the first experience we have with anal sex is negative, it is very possible that we do not want to try it again. Therefore, below we will give you six essential tips so that you can enjoy anal penetration, even if this is your first time.
1. Start small
If it is the first time you do it, we suggest you start very little by little until you do not feel any discomfort. Anal sphincter tears can occur when direct and aggressive penetration is attempted.
Before starting with a penis, practice with a small anal plug to dilate the anus and increase its size until you are convinced that you do not feel any pain.
If you don’t have a sex toy handy, use one or two fingers to warm up and stop at the slightest discomfort. Once you have practiced alone, it is time to do it with your partner.
2. Do it with a person you trust
Communication is the key. Being on the same page as your partner will increase your confidence and your ability to relax, enjoy yourself and have a final orgasm.
3. Lubricant: essential!
Little by little and slide! Say NO to pain.
Unlike the vagina, the rectum is not naturally lubricated and its opening is much narrower, so it is very important to use a water-based lubricant on the penis and anus before attempting any foreplay, including those involving sex toys.
4. Let hygiene prevail
When we practice anal sex, it is very likely that we will have to deal with fecal matter. That is why it is important that you go to the bathroom before starting.
Giving yourself an enema is not essential, but if you are going to do it, we suggest you do it one to two hours before. Be careful, as a poorly done enema can cause side effects such as diarrhea. Always have a towel at hand because if an “accident” happens you can clean it faster.
5. Use two condoms
Feces contain bacteria that can pass into the vagina. So another way to care for and maintain hygiene is to use two condoms: one when the penis enters the anus and the other when it penetrates the vagina. This way you can reduce the transmission of bacteria and prevent infections.
6. Enjoy the orgasm
Not all are precautions in anal sex. If you comply with all the previous steps, in the end you will receive your well-deserved prize. The anal orgasm exists since the rectum is an area full of nerve endings. And the best way to achieve it is to enjoy the journey.
Never forget that the stimulation of other erogenous parts such as the clitoris, the neck, the nipples or romantic practices such as kisses are part of a whole that will allow you to reach an incredible orgasm.